- SKU
- DJF4PIMX
- Category
- Trending Shirts
- Design
- Original artwork, copyright protected
- Printing
- Printed to order and shipped from the USA
- Processing
- 2–3 business days after your order is placed.
- Delivery
- 5–10 business days within the US, 7–15 business days internationally.
- Cost
- Calculated at checkout from your address and the number of items.
- Tracking
- A tracking number is emailed as soon as your order ships.
Like you go out with people and they’ll order this super expensive top shelf bottle of amazing cognac or scotch… and then it’s all 1…2…3…dzo! drink it all down straight as fast as possible to show off. Like ffs it’s meant to be sipped and ENJOYED. If you’re just going to funnel it all down your throat to get plastered, why even buy good liquor? To show people you can waste money like water but when you go home you’re indebt and just wasted 3 months of wages in 2 hours of drinking. East Asia societies (including Vietnam) tend to have relatively more complex and rigid hierarchies, which emphasize politeness and hinder open communication. Therefore, men in these societies have to resort to drinking to socialize and communicate freely. I’ve seen many Vietnamese men who use the Homer Secret Weapon baseball cartoon shirt Also,I will get this pretext of being under the influence of alcohol to act out in front of other people, revealing their hidden frustrations, resentment,…. Yes this is the correct cause for drinking culture, it’s the only place where men can really be honest with their feelings which they were told from a young age to contain. This is especially true with the older generations as they follow this very strictly, with the new generation, we are fortunately not so influenced by this anymore but it is very much still a thing.
Homer Secret Weapon baseball cartoon shirt details
Exactly. Strong men are leaders not followers. They will prod and manipulate you to join the Homer Secret Weapon baseball cartoon shirt Also,I will get this followers. Say no, join without drinking; they won’t like it, they will tease you, but they will respect you. Smoking, womanizing, same same. You literally didn’t read his second point. Drinking is a bit too integrated in our culture it became the norm. Declining a drink got people to call me gay, for some reason. And that’s not a rare sight. Who are those people? Ignore them bro if they are forcing you to drink then I don’t think you should be around them This isn’t limited to Vietnam. In most places, you drink (and smoke) in order to socialize and network with people. It’s an incredibly hard skill to turn down a drink or pretend you’re drinking to keep up the mood.
Grew up in Vietnam and now I’m in Australia. It’s the Homer Secret Weapon baseball cartoon shirt Also,I will get this same every where. I think it’s an art to get out of it. I normally start with Vodka Lime Soda. Then just sneakily switch to Soda water with lime. Just don’t drink and enjoy the food, karaoke, company etc… however don’t judge those who do enjoy a drink. It’s ingrained in Vietnamese culture. You can’t change it Never had a drink in my life. Whenever I go to a wedding or “đi nhậu” I usually come up with the excuse that I’m “bị dị ứng (allergic)” or because of “tôn giáo (religion)”. Then others usually back off from forcing me to drink. It’s kind of hysterical how mad or confused people get when you refuse a drink, like… can I just drink something non-alcoholic? Just tell them you don’t want to drink. If they persist, punch them in the face, repeatedly. Then tell them if they ever, ever push a drink on you again that you do not want, you will smash their fucking stupid face again… Or, you can say, No thank you, and walk away.



How to buy this Homer Secret Weapon baseball cartoon shirt
i think you can try say something like “nah i have severe allergy and alcohol like death sentence for me” and just maybe it will help, i don’t drink too but it’s not like i actually talk to so much people to drink with… As a foreigner I can say that I love drinking with my Vietnamese friends. It is nice to relax with them and get drunk, the Homer Secret Weapon baseball cartoon shirt Also,I will get this only time when I complain is when some people try to get me to drink that low quality alcohol I hate it because it gives me terrible hangovers… other than that I’m always happy to drink with them as many cans of beer as they want. Cheers It is difficult, but absolutely possible. I am from England, which has an even worse drinking culture. It took me many years, and to be honest a lot of negative physical and psychological health effects of alcohol, to finally give it up. Now I’ve been totally sober since the start of 2019 with no regrets at all. One of the problems that makes it so hard to give up is, like you say, people pressuring you into drink, and social situations where the only real thing to do is drink. What you need to do is fully understand and accept the negative consequences of alcohol, and compare those against whatever uncomfortable social situation not drinking in will put you in. If you think about it objectively, it’s a very straightforward and logical choice – your health always comes first. For me at least, there isn’t an amount of social discomfort that could outweigh the cons of alcohol. You are not a snowflake or weirdo, just a smart person who accurately assessed that drinking is not worth it for you.
So the Homer Secret Weapon baseball cartoon shirt Also,I will get this answer is just to say “thanks, but I don’t drink”. I understand there’s some face/elder culture stuff here but just remember that your health is more important, and people that don’t accept your choices are not worth your time or energy. Let people think what they wanna think. You’re only going to be with 1 person for the rest of your life, so take care of you. Don’t succumb to the ridiculous societial pressures of poisoning your body so people like you. If people don’t like you for not drinking, that says a lot about them, and they’re doing you a favour. I’ve been living in Vietnam for 6 years and I’ve experienced the drinking pressure firsthand. But also, I don’t care. Drink what you want.
Boi if you need the Homer Secret Weapon baseball cartoon shirt Also,I will get this alcohol to be respected then you wont get respected either way. I never drink more than I want to. I dont see any issues. Drinking has been a tribalism’s protocol to be standardized as a must for socialization. Vietnamese adults tend to ignore outcomes like that coz it matters more when at the end of the day you are satisfied with the surface of happiness we tend to physically require for ourselves through anything that turns on the switch immediately It’s on you bro, no one put a gun in your head and force you to drink. And if you feel shitty after rejecting the drink, it’s on you too Look at the average income and look how much people here drink… They waste a good chunk of their already low income on poison.
I have not drink alcohol and have declined any invitation of drinking. I dont care if that is my boss, senior or not. I will stop going to future drinking party if they invite/force me to drink. OP should know this: IF THEY RESPECT YOU, THEY WILL NOT KEEP INVITING OR FORCING YOU TO DRINK WHEN YOU DECLINE DRINKING. THERE IS NO SUCH DISRESPECTFUL THINGS ABOUT DECLINING DRINKING. Youngster here and i say this on behalf of the Homer Secret Weapon baseball cartoon shirt Also,I will get this new generation that we don’t like to drink. Business? yes. With friend? Nah. The elders on the otherhand… Well you experienced it first hand already I think it part of the drinking culture across east/some part of south east asia. It more about bonding then anything but you can easily decline the alcohol and settle for a soft drink and what not. I don’t think anyone consider it disrespectful especially nowadays. The younger your coworker the less likely it be consider disrespectful.
I usually drink with them since my alcohol tolerance is high, i don’t really like beer so i don’t “nhậu” often. Still, flavoured alcohol like Soju or cocktail go down easily for me. I drink alcohol because i enjoy the Homer Secret Weapon baseball cartoon shirt Also,I will get this buzz it give and how some alcohol go well with other flavouring. (Im a part time bartender so alcohol is something i have special interest in) Don’t let yourself be force to drink if you don’t like the taste or can’t handle alcohol well, it is a devil drink and you should do as the poster in your post say ” Н Е Т ! ” Drinking is only fun when u drink with those that you like Otherwise say no I will drink with my colleague but not my relative lol My male relatives and in-laws, mostly the older men consider being able to tolerate drinks a strong attribute. They end up over drinking and making complete fools of themselves, either vomiting or saying stupid shit they regret later. Although I can handle handle my liquor due to my body weight, I always decline their offers for beer, wine, or hard alcohol because they overindulge and it’s irresponsible. They become belligerent and rude sweaty messes and they try to drag me down with them. They do what they want. The only thing you can reproach is that too many drive even after drinking. And that they shout “một hai ba YOoooooOOOOo” every 2 minutes. I mean even myself as a native Vietnamese couldn’t agreed more. Sure, it’s good to drink sometimes, but it’s not always needed in every occasions.
So don’t drink, it’s really not that’s hard. It’s up to you. Why are so many reddit discussion threads pathetic whines from people looking for reinforcement? No one here can give you the Homer Secret Weapon baseball cartoon shirt Also,I will get this will power or courage you need to refuse pressure to drink. You’ll only find it internally. So do it or don’t… It more acceptable now, because of course we don”t fuck with the police. I always tell the person if you gonna pay the fine then i will drink, otherwise let me drink coca please. Op don”t worry, just say no I’m a sobrietarian myself and in virtually any country you can think of (with the exception of Islamic ones), there are strong societal influences that encourage drinking. It was such an issue that in the 1920s, the American government had to pass prohibition which resulted in speakeasies booming in business. In Vietnam, especially given their work culture, I wouldn’t be surprised that many take to drinking as a way to cope with the stress. But I’m the same as you, I don’t like the way alcohol tastes and I can very much live without it. It’s partly the culture. Which is common among East Asian countries, Japan, China, Korea, Vietnam. Whether you enjoy being drunk or not it’s a personal preference. I enjoy alcohol, but not when im forced to drink more than I’m willing to (or, at a stupidly fast pace). But drinking does help getting along or getting things done. People relax, less defensive and more open. Nowadays it’s fine to not drink, as long as you get things done
Lol in other culture like Australia or Germany you will be even a bigger bitch not drinking with the Homer Secret Weapon baseball cartoon shirt Also,I will get this boys. So either don’t be a bitch and learn to drink responsibly. Or embrace being a bitch and never touch a drop of alcohol. If you are confident and respected by your peers and superiors then there will be zero pressure regardless of seniority. In fact, standing by your personal beliefs will get you more respect because it shows conviction and strength. Your excuse is you want to be in top form for work, no one can argue with that. Stand your ground respectfully but still be a fun part of the evening. If you decline drinks and then sit there quietly and sulk then of course no one wants to be around that.
Your experience with alcohol is unique to you. If you drank more, all those negative effects wild lessen due to your tolerance building up. (Not saying you need to drink more). Not everyone has all those negative effects from drinking. It’s a great a social and bonding experience, especially with work people. It’s an opportunity to decompress, relax and get to know each other better, leading to a more cohesive team. It’s life. We all often have to do things we don’t like. If having some drinks with your boss means they like you more and that improves your work environment or gives you more opportunities then the Homer Secret Weapon baseball cartoon shirt Also,I will get this pros outweigh the cons. If you really need an excuse then say someone close to you died from alcohol poisoning so it’s a matter of principle or you’re allergic or something out of your control.
This is really such a small thing to feel so strongly about that you post a rant online. If you don’t want to do it, then it’s up to you to find a way around the Homer Secret Weapon baseball cartoon shirt Also,I will get this problem. If you have a good relationship with your colleagues and they respect you then it will never be an issue. I have managed and employed huge teams of Vietnamese people over the years. Many have been non-drinkers. That was never an issue with anyone, including superiors, because those people were liked and respected. I have a love hate relationship with alcohol. Special occasions only for me. Drinking regularly just ruins fitness progress and you waste the next day being incredibly tired and anxious Well you must water down your beer with a lot ice first and then you let half of it pour down your shirt while chugging after 1 2 3.
I’m vietnamese I really hate that My brother Is Addicted to drinking beer so much Every time he drink them , he get violent but Because he was forced to drink them as a teen. He started to drink them none stop I hate it when someone pulled the Homer Secret Weapon baseball cartoon shirt Also,I will get this “you don’t respect me if you don’t drink” card after I declined their offer. Like bitch, I have my respect … for my own health, I don’t respect anyone forcing me to drink. It only disrepect not to drink if you are under someone, be a boss, you can make everyone under you follow tour rules. The last time someone forced me to drink, a glass ended up broken on the mf’s head. So yeah, I hate drinking, been alcohol free for almost of my life, only drink about 3 small glasses of beer in big occasion only like sibling’s wedding.
I’ve learned to accept the Homer Secret Weapon baseball cartoon shirt Also,I will get this drink when someone pours/offers and then do my best to pretend (ppl distracted anyway). It’s the declining the drink and saying I don’t drink that bothers ppl. Accept enthusiastically lol and the maneuver. I used to love a drink but liver and stomach says no I get it and I understand where you coming from. I grew up in that drinking culture. My dad and my uncles and family friends gathering around and drinking a $hite load of beers. And I too participated in those especially in my 20s. But all that changed once I had my first kid. But also alcohol affected my work and lifestyle. Now I hate the taste beer. I’ll drink it whenever I come back to VN and nhau with the in laws. But yeah hangovers especially when you’re in 40s isn’t fun.
In my case I just denied so much people just accept that this is the Homer Secret Weapon baseball cartoon shirt Also,I will get this way this npc work, no offense, no personal( except wine, like 4 small sniffs and you’ll hit the spot, no need to drink 3 liters of beer( 95% water from ice)). It feels the same here as it does in the UK so I’m used to booze being a norm. I’m not personally a big drinker so I just have a juice or soemthing aha To contrast everyone complaining about the force drinking culture, let me tell you my experience. I used to đi nhậu with a squad and we used to “invite to drink” but not quite pressuring. This time I head out getting myself motorbike taxi, preparing to go drink like a mofo to find out everyone declines. In the end we still have a grand time, talking and chatting like we’re drunk XD but actually no alcohol. The culture is indeed changing for the better. If you’re in a group of pressure drinking, say you don’t want to lose 3 mils to the cops. But honestly, it’s just not the squad you want to be around anyway
It’s easy to decline a drink … just say ‘ no thank you , I don’t drink ‘ . If they don’t like it’s , that’s their problem .. not yours . That’s funny. I was in HCMC on New Year’s Eve in Nguyen Walking street for news years celebrations and while there were thousands of people I saw pretty much nobody drinking. The 7 eleven was still stocked with beer. It was actually quite hard to find a drink. I thought there wasn’t really a drinking culture in Vietnam 😅 They drink as a group, so they tend to choose home or restaurant where they can gather and act annoyingly without being interrupted. I never like beer, wine or similar things in general but fruit wine is acceptable because I like sweet things
When I was young probably in my 20s I usually drink follow every participant. After working out, I take care of my health, I notice how beer taste awful when you drink it into your system. Right now I just politely refuse, if they insist, I just have 1 sip and tell them I can only handle that. Just refuse as much as you can, they probable don’t remember the Homer Secret Weapon baseball cartoon shirt Also,I will get this next days, If you get a bottle of beer and keep the bottle, then you can do the drink action without swallowing. Just press your lips together to stop it going into your mouth. Almost nobody will notice that the liquid isn’t going into your mouth and they will get so drunk they will assume you are too. If they ask you don’t need any more beer you already have this one.
after realizing that my salary does not cover my medicines and health, I stop drinking and drink at my own pace, and I dont give a beep what others say. Its your life, your choice. As someone who is experiencing terrible hangover, seeing this post at the Homer Secret Weapon baseball cartoon shirt Also,I will get this top of my reddit feed is like seeing a sign from universe lol Drinking is acceptable unless you are in an commercial situation, which is much worse in China, you have to drink and show your weakness to your customer, to make them happy. I’m Polish and visited Vietnam with my fiancee during Tết last year. Family drank a lot, tried to out drink me, and it was still like “easy” mode (no offense). First, despite not being a heavy drinker for my country, I have a bigger tolerance – Poles drink a lot, especially on some family meetings. Second, most of family I’ve met drank like Polish teenagers/young adults. No pacing, and doing typical drinker mistakes like drinking soda/beer after rice wine shots (not just water), skipping eating between drinks or totally messing up drinking order (beer ended, let’s do shots). You really can do a lot of stuff to make your next day easier. I agree that drinking culture might be tiring – personally we skip drinking in Poland whenever we could as getting fully wasted is too tiring (and that’s how drinking in Poland mostly ends). It should also change with time – I think young people drink less almost everywhere in the world. First, people need to stop forcing drinks on others. When I lived in Paris and I wasn’t drinking people got UPSET at me. As if I’m harming them by not drinking which I found super annoying and actually shamed them for it. Honestly, I could be a recovering alcoholic for all you know!
How to buy this Homer Secret Weapon baseball cartoon shirt
Be the first to review “Homer Secret Weapon baseball cartoon shirt” Cancel reply
You must be logged in to post a review.
| Size | Length | Chest |
|---|---|---|
| S | 28in | 18in |
| M | 29in | 20in |
| L | 30in | 22in |
| XL | 31in | 24in |
| 2XL | 32in | 26in |
| 3XL | 33in | 28in |
| 4XL | 34in | 30in |
| 5XL | 35in | 32in |
| Size | Length | Chest |
|---|---|---|
| S | 25in | 16in |
| M | 26in | 17in |
| L | 26.5in | 18in |
| XL | 27in | 19.7in |
| 2XL | 27.9in | 21.6in |
| 3XL | 28.5in | 22.7in |
| Size | Length | Chest |
|---|---|---|
| S | 28in | 18in |
| M | 29in | 20in |
| L | 30in | 22in |
| XL | 31in | 24in |
| 2XL | 32in | 26in |
| 3XL | 33in | 28in |
| Size | Length | Chest | Sleeve |
|---|---|---|---|
| S | 26in | 20in | 33.5in |
| M | 27in | 22in | 34.5in |
| L | 28in | 24in | 35.5in |
| XL | 29in | 26in | 36.5in |
| 2XL | 30in | 28in | 37.5in |
| 3XL | 31in | 30in | 38.5in |
| 4XL | 32in | 32in | 38.5in |
| 3XL | 34in | 33in | 38.5in |
| Size | Length | Chest |
|---|---|---|
| S | 27in | 18in |
| M | 28in | 20in |
| L | 29in | 22in |
| XL | 30in | 24in |
| 2XL | 31in | 26in |
| Size | Length | Chest | Sleeve |
|---|---|---|---|
| S | 28in | 18in | 33.5in |
| M | 29in | 20in | 35in |
| L | 30in | 23in | 36.5in |
| XL | 31in | 24in | 38in |
| 2XL | 32in | 26in | 39.5in |
| 3XL | 33in | 28in | 39.5in |
| Size | Length | Chest | Sleeve |
|---|---|---|---|
| S | 27in | 20in | 34.5in |
| M | 28in | 22in | 35.5in |
| L | 29in | 24in | 36.5in |
| XL | 30in | 26in | 37.5in |
| 2XL | 31in | 28in | 38.5in |
| 3XL | 32in | 30in | 39in |
| 4XL | 33in | 32in | 39.5in |
| 5XL | 34in | 34in | 40in |
| Size | Youth Size | Length | Chest |
|---|---|---|---|
| S | 6-8 | 20.5in | 16in |
| M | 10-12 | 22in | 17in |
| L | 14-16 | 23.5in | 18in |
| XL | 18-20 | 25in | 19in |
| Size | Youth Size | Length | Chest |
|---|---|---|---|
| S | 6-8 | 21in | 17in |
| M | 10-12 | 22.5in | 18in |
| L | 14-16 | 24in | 19in |
| XL | 18-20 | 25.5in | 20in |
Related products
Trending Shirts
Never underestimate an old man who loves table tennis and was born in December shirt
Trending Shirts
Trending Shirts
I was social distancing before it was cool Camping vintage shirt
Trending Shirts
They call me grammy because partner in crime makes me sound like a bad influence shirt
Trending Shirts










Reviews
There are no reviews yet.